First Date Tips From a Blonde :*

Listen ladies. First dates are always a little nerve racking, but exciting at the same time. You’re meeting someone new, feeling them out, and potentially developing a new relationship. A lot of pressure!!! Here are my tips: 1) Keep it calm, easy. Only go out to dinner on the first date if he asks, don’t expect it. Usually it’s better to go to a nice quiet place and enjoy a Starbucks or have a drink at a chic place. Think about it, you DON’T really know him yet!!! You don’t wanna get stuck with someone you don’t like and not be able to have an out (same goes for dudes). 2) DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT bring up exes! NEVER EVER DO THIS! Why in the world would you EVER do this?! To make the other person feel like crap??? To boost your self-esteem? This is a given, come on now. 3) Look for little signs. i.e., does he open the door for you? Does he bring you flowers? Does he leave you cute notes? You wanna be romanced, no? 4) You need to be with someone you’re attracted to. Ask yourself if you could see a kiss happening in the near future. 5) Don’t be boring. If you’re bored by him, you might need to rethink things. 6) Keep conversations positive and light. Do not delve into why your childhood was terrible or why you are currently working at a bar. 7) Have a good time for G-d’s sake. Enjoy yourself! Throw back a couple. 8) Give everybody a fair shot. Never judge entirely by the first date.